Sex on My Desk - a Blog by the Love & Sex Editor at iVillage

It's not you.  It's me. 

You're great... really.  But it's time for me to move on.

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• Singles and dating
• Marriage
• Understanding men

Wait, why the tears?  We don't have to break up!  Just go to JoseyMiller.com to keep our relationship as strong as ever.  I hope to see you there...

With love*,
Josey

*Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.
There's nothing you can do that can't be done.
Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game
It's easy.
There's nothing you can make that can't be made.
No one you can save that can't be saved.
Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be in time
It's easy.
All you need is love, all you need is love,
All you need is love, love, love is all you need.
Love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love.
All you need is love, all you need is love,
All you need is love, love, love is all you need.
There's nothing you can know that isn't known.
Nothing you can see that isn't shown.
Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.
It's easy.
All you need is love, all you need is love,
All you need is love, love, love is all you need.
All you need is love (all together now)
All you need is love (everybody)
All you need is love, love

Love is all you need.

--The Beatles

What would you do during the stressful wedding-planning process if not for your devoted bridesmaids? Well, bridesmaids' gifts are one way to thank them! Start with the clever, but practical Bridesmaid's Survival Kit from MyWeddingFavors.com. It's under $20 so it barely qualifies for your wedding budget spreadsheet. And your girls will appreciate having everything from double-sided tape to dancing socks in one compact package.

Want to mark your territory (and I mean that in a cute way, not a crazy way)? Get on his pants with these personalized white boxer shorts. You'll love them because you'll know he'll be thinking about you morning and night... and several times in between--not to mention that they're under $25. He'll love them because they're practical and endearing, but not over-the-top romantic. Maybe the way to a man's heart isn't through his stomach after all.



*I made you say underwear!

Care to be a little more specific? Enter the Couples Genealogy Tree from Red Envelope. Not only does it make for attractive, customized décor for your home, it's a wonderful, conversation-starting tool for teaching your children about their ancestry.



Now that's what we call family style!

Rule number one for meeting your new boyfriend's parents: Never show up empty-handed. While wine may seem like a safe bet, what if they don't drink? That's why we love these Glass Illusion Ice Cream Bowls from Uncommon Goods: Everyone loves ice cream! They're a bit pricey at $40, but think of it this way: These could be your in-laws someday. (When it comes to first impressions, everything you've heard is true.)