Do you send sexy texts? Does your guy send sexy texts to you? Don't be shy. Everybody's doin' it. And I really mean everybody—even the mayor of Detroit. Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick denied that he had an affair with a top aide—under oath!—but their 14,000 sexy texts (right, three zeros) tell a very different story:

The mayor's indiscretion has landed him in a Clinton-style scandal that could cost him his job and his law license and even bring perjury charges. The Detroit Free Press did not explain exactly how it obtained the messages, which were sent or received in 2002-03 from Chief of Staff Christine Beatty's city-issued pager.

They even released some of the text messages themselves:

"I'm madly in love with you," Kilpatrick wrote on Oct. 3, 2002. "I hope you feel that way for a long time," Beatty replied. "In case you haven't noticed, I am madly in love with you, too!" On Oct. 16, 2002, Kilpatrick wrote Beatty: "I've been dreaming all day about having you all to myself for 3 days. Relaxing, laughing, talking, sleeping and making love."

So how do iVillage women feel about sexy texts? Read their "Sexy Text Confessions" right here!