Sadly, I did snoop on my ex's computer, although he did give me good reason and snooped on me first, lol. If I hadn't, though, I would've ended up married to a two-timing jerk, so I totally have no regrets. ;)

I must confess,I have snooped on DH's computer, multiple times. It's a nasty habit :(

Yes, and I don't feel guilty about it. He called me from work to ask me to get a bit of info for him from his computer so while I was in there anyway.. I sort of looked around into his email. He had nothing incriminating in it thankfully.

I know he's snooped on mine, but I haven't snooped on his....I did some clean up (deleted a bunch of duplicate mail from 3 years ago), but nothing that I wouldn't have done for a co-worker or a client when working on their PC.

My dh doesn't have a computer let alone an email account. He's just not interested in it. I wouldn't snoop anyway! I don't go through his wallet either, and he stays out of my purse.

I snooped with my X, he was really secretive about everything and he'd act really weird if I used his computer. I honestly didn't find much, so cake on my face!

I've been on dh's computer before at his request - I know his email password and he knows mine and we've got nothing to hide from each other, so I don't think either of us are snooping. His computer is strictly for work, so he'd use mine for anything interesting anyway, lol and he knows I'd know how to see if he'd been sneaking around. But he doesn't think that way, so I don't worry about it.

I have, yes. If he has nothing to hide, then why would he care if I took a look?

I have not, but really wish I had with my ex. It would've saved me years of working at a relationship that was doomed anyway.

We share the same computer and therefore it cant be snooping. Now if I knew his password to his email account and snooped in there without asking him first. Then its snooping and I havent done that.

Yes I have, and I wasn't proud of it. DH left his email open and I found an email from a 22 yr old girl from his office saying 'I miss you, let's plan lunch or something.' And I flipped out. He kept saying there was nothing to worry about, then I found her myspace, and now I KNOW there's nothing to worry about, lol. He doesn't consider it snooping since he tells me to look there for stuff all of the time.

My husband had an affair in September last year, absolutely I snoop on his computer. And in his e-mail, his MySpace, his wallet, his phone and I pull phone records every month and look through them.

We share a computer..so there isn't any snooping. I also don't go looking through his files unless asked to. But at the same time if he did have something he didn't want me to look at, it'd be pretty stupid to leave it on the computer we share.

I don't snoop. I have used his computer on occasion and I don't care enough to snoop. If I wanted to know, I would just ask.

He hasn't snooped on me either. And he knows my passwords to 2 of my email accounts because he set them up for me. Once again, if he wants to know, he will ask.

I have snooped, and I was glad I did. The first time was years ago. I logged in to my then bf's AOL account while we were talking on the phone (he had dial up and only one line so I knew he wouldn't try to get on). When I logged on a mutual friend started IM'ing him. She was telling him how much she loved him and how she wished they could be together. I checked his email and there were pictures of her in a bikini. So, I asked him about it casually while we were on the phone. It was pretty funny. That was the same guy that I checked his account names and there was one that had a profile that was 'bi-curious'. BUH-BYE!!!

The last time I snooped was with a guy I was dating last year. I would stay at his house a few days a week, most of the time he would work in the morning, then I would stay at his house and be there when he got home. One day I went on his computer and decided to check his history...I found that he had an account on a dating service. The nail in the coffin was when I saw that one of his pictures were taken on OUR trip to Jamaica!

I don't regret it, I would do it again. I deserve to know that the people I share my life with are not playing games.

I snooped before and found out that my boyfriend's exwife supposedly had herpes, because he wrote about it in a Word journal. He said he never saw anything alarming while with her and that he supposed she only said she had it to excuse herself from having sex during their marriage. He had been tested and was negative. I got tested and was fine too, so who knows. I also found out how he felt about me when we first met; very nice things. It created a trust issue between us, though, because I snooped and also because I didn't think he was as honest as he should have been with me. We did manage to work through it, though.

Yes. But only after suspicion. I would have never thought to snoop if it wasn't for some doubts. I don't regret the snooping but I do regret letting him know that I snooped. If you're going to confront a guy about cheating or questionable activity you found while snooping, you better have the facts and be prepared to walk. A cheater is not going to confess. He's a cheat!

yes i have snooped on husbands computer before and if i hadn't i would have had a cheating husband but i solved the problem cuz when i got on and found what he was up to i emailed the person and let them no that he was married and that he was not available and when she found that out she left him alone it was funny he couldn't figure out y she wasn't talking to him anymore lol

Yes, I snooped and found where he had been going to dating sites. He said he was just checking to see who he knew on there. We split up about 6 months later (the computer being one of the issues) and the very next day he had a profile online.

I don't think it is "snooping" when two people are intimate and supposedly in a committed relationship - there should be no secrets. I absolutely check - but I don't do it behind his back - I make him open his e-mails in front of me unexpectedly and let me read what's in there - believe me, it has saved me from wasting my life on two-timing jerks. Same for the cell phone - unexpectedly ask for his phone - start looking at whose names are in there - there should be an explanation for all the women in it. Don't be dumb - be smart. Just be ready to send him packing if he won't show it to you right then and there. All this nonsense about his "privacy" will get you a disease or dumped someday anyway. So be smart.

yeah, Ive "snooped" .. but its been years since I have. I trust dh with all my heart, (been married 10 years) and I know that even if I looked right now, there wouldn't be anything bad to find .. I swear Id probably get board out of my mind, cause he's a total computer/gaming geek ROFL!

When my wife and I separated for a few months yes, I did snoop into her e-mail and myspace accts. good thing I did...found out she'd been flirting with a guy she used to work with for the past four years and that flirting turned into a one night affair...she has since apoligized for it and I have forgiven her for it...we have worked out the problems we had been having and she has stopped all contact with the guy...to make things even better we have decided to have a recommitment ceremony to fully commit our lives to each other again.

I wish he didn't know how to use a computer that way he wouldn't get into so much trouble :(

Sadly, i snooped in my husband's computer because i was suspicious that something what's going on with him. We didn't have even a year of marriage and he was chating with his exgirlfriend. I read so many things that until know hurt. He even told her about how he couldn't feel anything for me because he was still in love with her.
It is a long story, but the thing is now I am pregnant, we are trying to figure things out, we are not together anymore, but we are still living together. I dont know what is going to happen. It is been really painful, and now with the pregnancy make it harder, the only good thing about all of this is my baby!!!

Sadly...yes I have. I had a hard time trusting him while we were apart for a year, so I would sign into his e-mail and check to see what he was up to and who he was talking to. I really regret doing that.

Yes I did - years ago. I didn´t trust men in general and was sure he was cheating. He wasn´t. He was just watching porn. What made it worse was that his libido is very low, and even watching porn didn´t give me more......

Now I´ve found other ways and don´t care much what he does on his computer.....

You bet I checked on my BF because I figured he was having an affair when he suddenly became a midnight computer junkie.
He had tons of love letters from an old girlfriend that were fresh. I didn't tell him I saw the emails (I had his passwords) but I had to keep my jaw from dropping every time he made up stories about where he was going and what time he would be home. Needless to say, he's history.

I've peeked into my ex's computer when I was suspicious of his behavior. And it's a good thing I did--I found out about the online affairs (yeah, multiple ones!) he had been carrying on. I should've taken the hint then and left him before he started two-timing me in real life.