I don't blink an eye when I hear women complain that their guys watch porn in moderation.  When I hear women complain that their guys go to strip clubs in moderation (bachelor parties, for instance), I tell them to fuhgettaboutit and have a wild girls' night out of their own.  But there's no such thing as cheating "in moderation."  With cheating, I have a no-tolerance policy.   

That's why I was pretty appalled to learn that Mario Lopez was just chosen as People's Hottest Bachelor of 2008, right on the heels of the announcement that he's been reportedly cheating on his recent ex, Karina Smirnoff, for over a year (and that was reportedly far from his first time cheating). Is that "hot?" 

Hardly.

I agree with iVillage blogger This Fish, who says she's "having a very, very hard time erasing images of Slater in his crazy acid-washed, wide-thighed, tight-ankled jeans."  But that's not the only bone I have to pick with this bachelor choice.  Blech.